At some point most people wonder if their marriage is going to make it. They are frustrated and just don’t know what else to do to make things better. They’ve tried everything they can think of to change things but just can’t make a difference. If you are at this point, you are experiencing a fairly normal part of growth in your marriage relationship. For the large percentage of people this is a common season in a marriage that arises when you need to learn how to use better relationship tools for your own personal growth.
What happens to most people is that they hit a wall of frustration in their relationship and start to think that they need to leave and go another direction. We found that those who give up and leave without working through a solution in the relationship end up having the same problem in their next relationship because they didn’t learn how to adjust to the situation and correct their behavior in the first one. I’ve seen people do this 7 times in a row!
Marriage counseling because it can be so challenging, so why would Debbie and I want to work with couples with marriage problems? Not only are we able to help so many couples but even help those who have already separated get back together (80%). Couples are able to go on to live happier and improved lives with each other at a much closer level of intimacy. The reason is because we use not only clinical understanding but also integrate it with a biblical structure which strengthens the relationship.
Before you quit, know that in most situations, all you have to do is learn how to interact with your spouse differently and things will change for the better. Your life can be better so don’t give up before you get some help! Give us a call or go to our resources pages and see if something their might help you first. In either case we hope the best for you and your life!
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